Ep. 228 – Paul Fenner – Places to Hide Aren't Roadblocks

Ever feel stuck between wanting to start something new and actually making it happen? 

Whether it's launching a business, updating a resume, or initiating a difficult conversation, something often gets in the way—and it's not always what we think.

We often label our hesitation as "roadblocks," but more often than not, those roadblocks are actually places we hide from fear—fear of the unknown, failure, or disappointment.  Roadblocks are often external barriers we point to, such as busy schedules or endless tasks, which usually cover our inner fears.

What's the thing you've been thinking about—and what's stopping you from moving forward?  Let's start calling things what they are and make progress toward what matters to us.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES YOU MAY LIKE

1 Big Idea to Think About

  • The roadblocks we name, busy schedules, bad timing, needing more information, are often fear in disguise. Naming the real obstacle is the first step toward moving past it.

1 Way You Can Apply This

  • Pick one decision you've been postponing and ask yourself: "What am I actually afraid of?" Write it down. Getting specific about the fear makes it smaller and more manageable.

1 Question to Ask

  • What would I do this month if I knew the fear couldn't hurt me?

Resources Featured in This Episode: 

How to Use Emotions as Information

Fear of the Unknown

3 Reasons Why We Worry About the Wrong Things

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